My father is my best friend. All
through the years, he has been a solid pillar in my life, always present in
every step I took. My father would sit with me, counsel and advice me till
date. He taught me that honesty pays, even if it hurts me. In should tell the truth
even in the face of fear and adversary. His teachings still guide my path
towards success, because resilience and perseverance were always his watch
words. His free-spirited interactions with me and other members of the family have
helped me in my interactions with the outside world. This is because, I relate
well with people of different personalities and am quite accommodating. I
developed these habits as a result of my closeness with my father.
My mother taught me the cultural
values of my people through the tales she told us about myths and legends in my
culture. She also told me stories about people from diverse cultures. This has
helped me now to understand and appreciate why/how people do things the way they
do them. She has taught me objectivity in my approach to things/people.
My uncle was always there to help me
out with my homework and answer “hand-to-answer” questions I would ask; and
patiently too. My uncle taught me tolerance by patiently listening to and
providing reasonable/logical answers to my kids’ seemingly silly questions. It
has also helped me as a teacher to give the right answer to my students’
questions no matter how seemingly “provocative” they may sound/sound.
My children,although not part of my childhood, are a great inspiration for me.They are my source of joy and pride, and through them I see the true beauty of early childhood development.
Hauwa,
ReplyDeleteYour family seems very inspirational. I like that your dad taught you to be resilient and to persevere throughout your life. I am sure it did and does help you with diversity. I also like that your mother told you tales. I count it a blessing if a family has at least one story teller in it. Do you have a favorite myth/legend?
Yea Jana,my favorite legend is the famous Queen Amina of Zaria, a legendary queen much like the amazon in strength and conquests.
ReplyDeleteThanks for the compliment on my family.
I can relate to your inspirational family ties. I love that your father instilled important morals and values in your life and your mother kept the family culture alive. Those are things you get to pass on to your children, grandchildren, and great-grand children.
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